Àékwu só ibeya agba mmanu Part 2

To conclude the subject of the post: “Aekwu so’ ibeya agba mmanu” it is imperative to relate this to other similar axioms like “odu ko odu kpowa, odu ko odu aekwe ya onu”. In this context it completely captures the illustration of the law of attraction of Homogeneous types which brings us closer to the focus of this note. Type attracts type; you attract your own kind. “Aekwu na Aekwu yi” and “nri na ofhwe yi” irrespective of the variant species of “Aekwu” and the obvious differentiation in the onomatopoeia of the later, there is a unique uniformity that is consistent with the types.

The types no matter how infertile, barren or idle can be designed to complement the other.

That is why the saying “odu ko’ odu kpowa, odu ko odu aekwe ya onu” is the illustration of the law of attraction of homogeneous kind.

👉If you are surrounded by drunkards then you are one and the same with them.

👉If you are always yakking about other people, seeing the bad, mistakes or where others could have gotten it right, you will also note sadly that your direct family or circle of friends are exactly the same kind of people that you are, and sometimes their gaze may fall on you to castigate and cut you to shreds as you do to others behind their back.

👉If you are noted in the community as a cheat, a thief or generally you are viewed to be evil, it will also follow that you are surrounded by people with the same tendency.

This is the reason why our forbearers who were before us, were the first to spot this common genetics or heredity hence their emphatic position on “aegburu” extraction and lineage especially where a serious union is to be contracted between two adults  on behalf of their respective families.

The law of attraction of all homogeneous kinds swings into action in Okunano Osagwede communities by virtue of her customs and tradition as soon as any relationship between two adults is veered towards marriage.

Nothing in this life is by accident, everything is so designed that each is attracted to their various homogeneous kind.

So that by complimenting themselves their union will be a very rewarding one.
This is also the reason why good and evil exists side by side in this world.

But let’s go back to the subject matter. It will be so obvious to you when you observe yourself, your environment and most importantly your “aegburu”
When you are able to identify the values you inherited from your lineage, your family’s legacy or reputation.

You will agree with me that it was not by accident that you were born into your family. You would have unearthed a history no other person can tell you.

You will also agree with me that this law of attraction of homogeneous types is constant and infallible and that you were not born into your present family by accident. You may have a lot to redeem from a previous life hence you choose to reincarnate into your current family.
The greatest work every man has to do in this life is on himself, to get it right in each earth life.

To make good all his previous mistakes from a former life, that is the reason in some cases when a youth passes on through some misfortune in Okunano. You may hear some elders who have this knowledge in their references to the deceased, making comments like: “ya je gbowo te’” meaning the deceased should go and exchange his unfortunate life path.

I had to touch on this few examples because many youths in Okunano today, due to lack of this knowledge have been sidetracked going to all kinds of dubious mediums, churches and ministries to seek help over matters as simple this knowledge.

Many have been duped, most have been brain-washed into becoming everlasting church prisoners languishing in laziness and poverty. The worst thing to hit this type is indolence and a complete loss of their self-esteem.

Wake up from your slumber brothers and sisters; every one of us has a story, a history. What is yours? Research on your family, find out some truths about your family, your strengths and weaknesses alike, make amends where you must, we are all here for a purpose. FIND OUT THE PURPOSE OF YOUR LIFE!

But above all, no matter the circumstance you find yourself; no matter the pains and challenge posed by this obvious reality know that you have been placed in the best family you need to accomplish your purpose on earth.

Do not become a dormant and inactive member of your family and hence “Aekwu so’ ibeya agba mmanu”.

Rise up, take charge; the future is right before you. You are the managing director of your life but you may also become the damaging director of your life.

©C.A 29th July, 2019